Seder Day Night with the Goys (the Annual Mixed-Marriage Seder)

Our Friday Night Follies group consists of several mixed-faith (or lack thereof) couples. We’ve been known to light Chanukkah candles on a Christmas-themed tablecloth. Passover is the one holiday where we (almost) do things by the Book. A few examples of how we tailor the holiday:

Several years ago we had both red and white horseradish for the table. This led to the yin-yang presentation below:

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This year friends who have been wandering in the wilderness of Silicon Valley were up for the Seder (and were house-hunting so they can return to the Promised Land of Seattle). This is the family for whom gluten is a serious health issue. [See my earlier post, Feeding Between the Lines.] They purchased gluten-free gefilte fish that the daughter with celiac disease likes. (She may be the only 10-year-old in recorded history known to like gefilte fish.) They also bought gluten-free matzoh and what they thought was meal for matzoh balls, although the latter turned out to be farfel (coarse matzoh crumbs). The mom made the batter with farfel and decided that it was not suitable for matzoh balls. She started from scratch again by grinding up the farfel in the blender. I took the failed batter and made the pancakes seen below:

IMG_1125 After eating a couple of them, I’m convinced that any matzoh balls made from them would be serious sinkers. Here are the matzoh balls made with the ground-up gluten-free farfel:

IMG_1130 I opted not to take a picture of them at the end of the evening, as the leftovers disintegrated into a gooey mass. (Teachable moment: Most gluten-free flours are too low in protein to sustain the shape of products for very long. In this case, the main flours in the matzoh meal were tapioca and potato starch.)

As with most Seders, wine made an appearance. One friend brought some excellent 12-year-old wine from her late husband’s collection. This was not Kosher for Passover, however. The matriarch of our group wanted Manischewitz beyond what was used for the haroseth, so there was a bottle of what we called “goofy grape” on the table. We also had kosher grape juice for the kids and our non-drinking friends.

Passover is also a time of the Seder dessert smackdown. My coconut macaroons are a regular feature. I usually serve a fresh fruit salad alongside them, because the rest of the meal can be extremely heavy. Lest you think the plague of locusts only existed before Moses led the children of Israel out of Egypt, this is what the dessert table looked like after the guests descended. The macaroons and fruit are in the right foreground.

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It is traditional to set a place for the prophet Elijah. This year Elijah was our friend who was doing his nurse practitioner rotation at a clinic south of Seattle and couldn’t make it in time for the (condensed) Haggadah reading.

A good time was had by all, as always.

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1 comments

    • Gayle on April 6, 2015 at 12:52 pm
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    Why that is almost as yummy in the re-telling as it was in person. Great tradition!

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